“He was a murderer from the beginning, not holding to the truth, for there is no truth in him… for he is a liar and the father of lies.” John 8:44
The Bible calls Satan a deceiver. His primary weapon isn’t force—it’s lies. From Eden’s “Did God really say…?” to the arguments we hear today, the enemy wages a war of words. Whoever captures the narrative often captures the heart.
Today, I want to walk through three common cultural lies, examine them through Scripture, and offer a redemptive path forward in truth and love.
Lie #1: “Reproductive healthcare” includes ending life in the womb
What the words suggest: Health care should protect life and promote wellbeing.
How it’s often used: As a euphemism to justify ending a developing life.What Scripture Says
God’s design and blessing: “Be fruitful and multiply and fill the earth.” (Genesis 1:28)
Human life has value from the beginning: God forms us with purpose (Psalm 139:13–16; Jeremiah 1:5).
Jesus brings life: “I have come that they may have life, and have it abundantly.” (John 10:10)
A sober reality
Many are told that pregnancy itself is “dangerous” by default or that ending a pregnancy is simply routine “care.” Words can hide the gravity of what’s happening. A child in the womb is not a body part; he or she is a distinct human being with unique DNA. We can acknowledge the pain, fear, or complexity some women face without redefining life.
Grace for our stories
Some reading this carry regret or trauma from past decisions. Hear this: there is mercy in Jesus. Forgiveness is real. Healing is possible. You are not beyond God’s love.
A better way forward
Honor life—both mother and child.
Support moms with practical help: medical care, counseling, financial and community support.
Champion holiness: God’s design for sex within covenant marriage safeguards hearts and futures (1 Thessalonians 4:3–5).
Speak truth in love—without shaming those who are hurting (Ephesians 4:15).
Lie #2: “Objects cause violence; take the object and evil disappears”
What the words suggest: If we remove a tool, we remove the problem.
What Scripture teaches: The root problem is the human heart.
“The heart is deceitful above all things and desperately sick.” (Jeremiah 17:9)
The first recorded murder (Genesis 4) involved no firearm; it involved envy, anger, and unmastered sin (Genesis 4:6–8).
Scripture calls us to self-control, righteousness, and peace (Galatians 5:22–23; Romans 12:18).
Where Christians stand
We mourn violence and defend the innocent.
We reject hatred, vengeance, and lawlessness.
We also remember that changing instruments doesn’t change hearts. Only the gospel transforms people from the inside out (2 Corinthians 5:17).
A better way forward
Promote discipleship, family stability, mentorship, and community support.
Encourage wise policy discussions without dehumanizing those who disagree.
Pray and work for revival—because when hearts change, behaviors follow.
Lie #3: “You can redefine your God-given sex”
What the words suggest: Identity is self-created and endlessly flexible.
What Scripture teaches: Identity is received before it is expressed.
“God created mankind in His own image… male and female He created them.” (Genesis 1:27)
Our bodies are not accidental; they are meaningful gifts from our Creator (Psalm 139:13–16).
Followers of Jesus are called to truth and compassion—both (John 1:14).
Walking with grace and conviction
Some wrestle deeply with identity and experience real distress. Christians must be the first to listen, love, and care—while also holding that biological sex is part of God’s wise design. Compassion does not require us to deny creation or Scripture.
A better way forward
Affirm human dignity of every person as an image-bearer of God.
Offer pastoral care: prayer, counseling, friendship, and community.
Hold to truth even when it’s unpopular (Romans 12:2).
The Common Thread: Words That Reshape Reality
Paul warned about “fine-sounding arguments” (Colossians 2:4). Lies often come wrapped in language that sounds caring, smart, and necessary. That’s why believers must:
Test everything by Scripture (Acts 17:11; 2 Timothy 3:16–17)
Guard our minds (Ephesians 6:17)
Refuse bitterness and contempt (Ephesians 4:31–32)
Keep the gospel central—Jesus saves sinners, including us (Romans 1:16)
If You’ve Been Hurt—or Have Hurting History
There is forgiveness for every sin at the cross (1 John 1:9).
There is healing for shame and trauma (Psalm 147:3).
There is new life in Christ (John 3:3; 2 Corinthians 5:17).
The gospel is the power of God unto salvation—for the fearful mom, the angry heart, the confused soul, and the self-righteous critic alike (Romans 1:16).
A Prayer
Father, anchor us in Your Word. Expose every lie we’ve believed. Heal our wounds, forgive our sins, and fill us with the Spirit of truth. Give us courage to speak with clarity and love, and hands eager to serve those in need. Make us a people who cherish life, pursue peace, and honor Your design. In Jesus’ name, amen.
