Why People Get Offended at God (and How to Get Free)
The character of God—the Word of God—can be misunderstood in ways that lead people to get offended at Him. I’ve been working on this series on offenses and how they come. Today we’re looking at why people get offended at God and how to avoid that trap.
1) Misunderstanding Curses Under the Law
Many Christians carry the Mosaic Law straight into the New Testament. We read about blessings and curses and conclude that unless we do everything perfectly, curses will fall on us (Deut 28:1; Deut 28:15; Exod 15:26).
But in the New Covenant, Jesus fulfilled the Law and we stand in His righteousness (2 Cor 5:21). When suffering hits, don’t assume, “God did this to teach me a lesson.” Jesus drew a clear line between the thief and Himself (John 10:10). Let Jesus be your plumb line: Would Jesus do this? If it doesn’t pass the Jesus test, don’t blame the Father.
2) Not Being Prepared for Christian Suffering
Sometimes we were told, “Receive Jesus and everything will be easy.” Scripture says otherwise: Christ left us an example of suffering for righteousness (1 Pet 2:21) and told us not to be surprised by fiery trials (1 Pet 4:12–16).
All who live godly will face persecution (2 Tim 3:12). Following Jesus means denying ourselves and taking up our cross daily (Luke 9:23). When persecution costs you friends, family, or even a job, don’t turn that pain into offense at God—He still promises victory through the trial.
3) Getting Offended at the Word Itself
When we resist what God says—holiness, generosity, sexual purity—the Word can feel offensive. But those who love God’s Word enjoy great peace and nothing makes them stumble (Ps 119:165). If a teaching stings, don’t slam your Bible—bring your heart to God and ask for grace to obey.
4) “The Word Didn’t Work for Me”
God isn’t playing favorites; He desires you to prosper and be in health as your soul prospers (3 John 2) and shows no favoritism (Acts 10:34). If a promise seems delayed, humble yourself: “Lord, show me where I missed it.” He is more committed to your healing, growth, and family than you are.
5) Blaming God for Death, Disasters, or Tragedy
Please hear this: God is not your enemy. Don’t attribute the thief’s work to the Father (John 10:10). His heart is long life and salvation (Ps 91:16; Rom 8:32).
Yes, there are moments of judgment in Scripture (Acts 12:23; Acts 5:1–11), but Jesus modeled rebuking destructive storms, not endorsing them (Mark 4:39). When the disciples wanted Elijah-style fire, Jesus corrected them: He came to save lives, not destroy them (Luke 9:54–56). Salvation is in Christ alone (Acts 4:12). Guard your heart from bitterness; it defiles many (Heb 12:15).
6) Feeling God Has Favorites (Grace Offends Pride)
Grace can offend us—like the elder brother in the prodigal story who resented mercy (Luke 15:31). Jesus also told of workers paid the same wage regardless of start time—another picture of God’s generous grace (Matt 20:1–16). Don’t be offended at God’s goodness to others. Receive by faith what is already yours in Christ.
Final Encouragement
If tragedy or disappointment made you angry at God, release it today. He’s for you, not against you (John 10:10; Ps 119:165). Return to the Word—that’s where your peace is. Keep going with this series—many will be set free from offense. And remember: offense is the bait of Satan. Don’t take the cheese.